Tuesday 3 September 2013

A Modern Day Serendipity

I sometimes find that someone from my past just pops into my head totally randomly; an ex, someone you met at a festival or on a night out, an old school friend. 

Today, exactly that happened. So, I looked her up… (It’s an old school friend by the way!). Now I've not seen or spoken to this girl in about 8 years, but I came across something quite unusual.

Franny Cat, as she now seems to be known, is on a mission. A mission that is undoubtedly, going to divide opinion.

You’ve seen Serendipity right?

Well, if not, here’s a long story short:

Boy meets girl
Boy and girl fall in love at first sight and spend the most amazing day together
Girl has some wild fantastical view that “If it’s meant to be, it’ll be”
Girl writes her number in a book and sells it to a second hand book dealer
Many years later, boy finds book
Calls girl
Boy and girl fall in love again and live happily ever after.

Delightful.

In truth, it’s not true Serendipity at all, because Boy actually spends all the years in the middle going into every single bookstore he walks past and searching Amazon and eBay to find the copy of this book.

True Serendipity would have meant he’d have found the book lying in the street, or someone gave him a copy for Christmas not having a clue of the story.

ANYWAY, beside the point.

Franny Cat is embroiled in a modern day Serendipity. See the video below:

(Can't embed it at the moment, so a link will have to do) 

I can’t quite believe I found this and I’ve been excited about writing this blog all day.

The comments are interesting, as loads of people have, of course, told Franny she’s NUTS and that whoever Alex is, he is going to FREAK THE F*CK OUT.
However, this might not be the case at all. He might be just as NUTS and looking for Franny.

Either way, I think this much effort deserves an answer at least right?!

This got me thinking though. What if this had been the other way round? What if Alex had been trying to find Franny?

I doubt there would have been ANY comments saying he was nuts, in fact, it probably would have been deemed the most romantic thing anyone had ever witnessed. And I’d be calling this blog “A Modern Day Cinderella” , because I would bet that a lot of girls would be coming forward to say that the shoe fit and they were, indeed, Franny.

So, what do you think? Romantic or crazy?

As I said, I think she deserves an answer either way and I, for one, am intrigued to see if they find each other. Fingers crossed!

You can help out by:

Instagramming a picture of you doing the below, hashtag #findingalex to @findingalexdoc



Follow on Twitter: @findingalexdoc


AND LET’S SEE WHAT HAPPENS. 

Monday 19 August 2013

It's As Addictive As Crack Cocaine...

Seriously... What is it about internet dating?

I’ve not been single for that long, but on a lazy Sunday night I found myself logging on to POF and joining up barely even noticing what I was doing. It was only when I received a message from a relatively revolting looking specimen I realised what I’d done.

“I will use it to start re-writing my blog” I said to myself.

It was within the first 24 hours I’d received a message asking why I’d re-joined (I mentioned this in my profile) as he had done the same, describing it as a heroin-like need.

From then on, I noticed more and more profiles...
“I’ve rejoined after...”
“Not been on for a while but thought I’d see what was going on”

And the worst... And most desperate

“I’m just giving this ONE MORE GO, PLEASE”

What is it about internet dating that is so, completely, addictive?

1) There’s always something going on... 
Remember the days you procrastinated on Facebook constantly refreshing the page just HOPING something interesting was going to happen? Well, don’t need to worry about that on internet dating, with hundreds of thousands of members and new people joining every minute, there’s always someone new to message/stalk/objectify!

2) The constant Confidence Boost... 
People viewing your profile, responding to your messages and sending you messages first, it’s like constant self assurance that someone does find you attractive... and what’s better than that.
Though, saying this, it could be argued that a large number of these people look like they’ve been dragged up from the bottom of the ocean


3) The Sheer HOPE... 
Come on, it went so badly the last time (36 times), that it HAS to go my way soon right... RIGHT?!?!?!?!

4) The Excitement Of It All... 
Whatever you’re looking for, there’s still a little twinge of excitement when you first start messaging someone that could go your way, it’s a nice feeling.

5) Intrigue... Curiosity Killed The Cat After All
If you’ve met people before, it’s likely you will meet people again and if you have been away from it all a while, you genuinely do want to see who (or “what” in some cases) is out there.

So... What will happen this time? I’m not taking it anywhere near as seriously as last time. 

Friends (Lydia in particular), I promise you, you will not hear the words “Love of my life” until I’ve met them AT LEAST ten times, no, five times, OK OK, TWICE!

I am tempted to use it as a social experiment, like the blog 40 Days of Dating. Where do the most eligible men come from? DO you have to pay to get the decent guys or are they just a needle in a haystick... 

Or a diamond in amidst a shed load of needles more to the point.




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